ReSoLUtIOnS

New year z around the corner
n i guess every one might be up with their ResolutionS list :)

last year i resolved to make "NO Resolutions"
and i understood it was a veryyy bad idea... :(
every thing went on so hazyly...
was not prepared for anything.. but things just happend...

i dont like that now!!
i hate that feeling of powelessness...

but that taught me something
that its Destiny that finally will Rule
no matter what you do
no matter how hard you hit
its all in its hands

you gotcha do your best and just leave the rest!!

with all this in my mind
i have decided to make up my Resolutions List for this year

and

that would be working on to....



1. Speak out my mind aloud...

2. talk less... and think more :) :)

3. Do your Best and just leave the Rest


would be glad if people can jot down their piece of mind too.. :)

Satisfaction

Every day i wake up with a thought,
yet another day has passed by and what is it that i have added..

what is it that i have done?
so i can count back to the end

we tend to run so fast in this busy world
trying to catch up things that "we think" should not miss
but rare is it
that we strive to get what "we feel" like doing

trying to catch the big picture of life
we often tend to ignore the very small picture
that can add immense joy in our life

life today has become so mechanical
running for things that are so artificial

none has the time to sit back and think for people around,
for the creatures with us, for the generations to come

none has the time to listen with a sympathetic ear,
nor has the patience to care for any other...

if this is what continues
what is it that we are gona leave back for our children?

in what conditions are we gona bring them up??

we ourselves are consuming every thing be it water, air, land, animals...
not just consuming.. but polluting them too..
breaking the family bonds...
not caring for another human...

and what would they have left for them

no more fresh water to drink...
no more fresh air to breath..
and show their kids how a butterfly looks like


SCARY is that thought!!!

people have to start thinking
not just about the present and about themselves
but about the society and generations to come

every one can help in their own way
give back some thing to the society, people around us..
either by planting a tree or just a smile to the other

we can surely make this a beautiful life where when we look back
we would have contentment, happiness and SATISFACTION of living a life like this

Ma Family

i have always herd that "Distance is a great promoter of love" I think i have never thought about this phrase much ever...but now When im away from my home and family it make me realize that it is Soooo true!!!!

Now when i am away from my home
i get to know the pinch of it

I never realized in my 22 yrs that my family, my people back home, my friends, every single things that i have left over there would mean so much to me. Every day when i get up i think it would be a different day over there with my mom shouting at not getting up early, my bro fighting with me for petty things, my dad giving lecture about life, my friends turning in with a different story, different idea every single day...

ahaa..

what a life that was.... i had so much fun in so lil comforts...
there were always cribbing of not having something.. but not a single day when i rolled a tear saying im missing some thing..

things change..... that is the only permanent thing in life!!!!
but few relations and feelings will never change for a lifetime.. :)
i am so glad that i have a family which can stand by side all through the journey of my life. My mom with whom i can share all my troubles in this world, my dad who can give me all the inspiration and courage to face things, my brother who can make me smile with his funny acts and caring thoughts and my friends with whom i share the weirdest of dreams & thoughts

i am so thankful to all of you

I miss you all so much

all you people mean so much to me :)

Vacation is OVER

im back to blogging after a while...
feeling REALLLL good that i got the opportunity to shout out loud what i wanted to (what an opportunity!!!!). these last couple of months have passed so quickly. got so busy with what i had to do, that i totally ignored what i wanted to... Its just a few months now that im away from home, but i have learned a lot of things.. got to know the true value of my loved ones... :) now i totally agree with the saying that "Distance is a great promoter of LOVE". And the Winter break.. just awesome.. went to some real good places.. did all i wanted to. And most importantly this break gave me a lot of time to think bout myself. All in all a wonderful time so far.....

and now back again to WORK!!!

F.R.I.E.N.D

MaybeU took time to say Hello...when it seemed no one noticed Me...

Maybe U asked about my day when I felt no one cared me..

Maybe U offered a kind hand when I faced a difficult task..

Maybe U asked whats wrong when I was troubled..

Maybe U gave a compliment that lifted up my spirit...

Maybe U spend small time talking...when I was feeling alone...

Maybe U smiled at Me when I felt I had no Friends...

Maybe U have sent a small note to let me know I am thought of...

It only takes a moment to make an impression to change life...to touch heart..

The small thing that seemed so little meant world to me...and showed me just how ...

Lessons from Life??

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life are sometimes taken from you too soon